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My name is Zmaj Arrual and

I'm here to help you reconnect

with your true authentic self

and fall in love with life again.

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"Can you remember who you were, before the world told you who you should be?"
- Charles Bukowski


I'm here to help you remember.

 

Awaken Your
Unapologetic Authenticity

Peel back the layers of who you think you ''should'', ''have to'' or ''are expected'' to be and step into who you truly are, unapologetically.

 

If you're reading this, chances are that there is something

hidden holding you back from living your most authentic life.

 

 I'm here to help you figure out what that is, so we can break through those internal barriers together and create a more aligned life path for you full of true inner-peace, freedom, fulfilment, and fun!

 

About me

 

And perhaps about you too

 
 

I grew up with the idea that ''only if I achieve XYZ I will finally feel happy and be successful''. Things like: marrying the perfect guy with a reputable surname, pursuing a societally acceptable career path, wearing designer clothes, having the perfect body, buying a big house in a well-known area, driving an impressive car or taking extravagant vacations and posting pictures online for everyone to see.

 

Maybe like me, you have already achieved some of these external expectations and societal standards only to be left asking yourself...

''Why am I still not happy?''

''Shouldn't I be happy by now?''

''Is there something wrong with me?''

''Am I just being ungrateful?''

''Where do I go from here?''

 

You don't understand WHY, despite everything that you have done in your life

you still feel so empty: confused, disappointed, frustrated, angry and alone.

And this is why you're here, reading this.

Looking for the right answer, what to do...

I know what it's like, because just like you, that used to be me too..

In your professional life, do you...

  • Feel like an impostor and like you're not doing enough?

  • Procrastinate on getting things done because you're scared to fail?

  • Over-promise and over-work yourself because you're afraid of disappointing others? 

  • Not allowing others to help you while helping them all the time 

  • Don't really feel proud of yourself no matter how great your CV looks?

  • Are more focused on how ''perfect'' your life looks like to others on the outside, than how draining and suffocating it actually feels to you on the inside?

 

In your personal life you find yourself...

  • Attracting & Being attracted to unavailable and uninterested people

  • Caught up in the cycle of situationships or obsessions/infatuations

  • Staying in unfulfilling relationships because you don't think you can find anyone better

  • Feeling misunderstood and lonely even when you're surrounded with people

  • Tolerating disrespectful toxic behaviour, having poor boundaries and struggling to stand up for yourself or say no without feeling guilty

 

When it comes to the relationship with yourself, you...

  • Don't really know who you are or what you want to do with your life

  • Don't trust yourself and often experience negative self-talk and self-doubt

  • Avoid heavy emotions by overworking or distracting yourself with other people

  • Compare yourself to others and have fears of missing out/not doing enough

  • Feel stuck and lost, while knowing deep down that you were meant for more

After years of searching for my own worth in the outside world, I realized that no matter how much money I made, how good-looking I got, or how impressive the things were that I achieved ... It would never be enough to quiet the restlessness and fill the emptiness that I felt deep inside. When nothing surface-level and superficial seemed to work, I decided to dig deeper within to discover what would.

And I did.

 

I discovered something that truly works. Something that has, for the very first time in my life and the lives of my clients allowed us to feel a true sense of inner peace, unconditional love,  unshakable confidence, and made us fall in love with life again.

 

And that is what I want do for you too.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

This is for you

If you struggle with...

Relationship with Others

You put others first, pedestalize and prioritize their needs above your own, people-please, pretend, mask your true thoughts/feelings, feel lonely and misunderstood by others, have difficulty communicating and handling conflicts, seek external approval/acceptance, and have a history of unfulfilling or even toxic relationships.

Relationship with Self

Unsure about who you are, what you want, feel insecure & inadequate, pick yourself apart, feel pressure to be a certain way, experience negative self-talk, value other's opinions above your own, feel like you are not living your own life, have difficulty making decisions, and feel like an impostor.

 Feeling Unfulfilled

There seems to be a lingering feeling of unfulfillment and emptiness within, no matter how many things you have, nothing seems to bring you that true inner sense of peace and joy. You find yourself procrastinating, feeling unmotivated, while feeling restless and  overwhelmed.

Even though you might not know where to start or what to do, you know that something has to change. 

You are done holding yourself back and are ready to create a better life for yourself.

 

How I can help you
find your way back home

1-1 Premium Coaching

GOLD

Monthly Premium Coaching Package

  • 4x 75min. private 1-1 Zoom sessions

(incl. lifetime access to all session recordings)

  • Complete session transcript & notes

  • Weekly self-connection practices customised to your needs

  • 1x Workbook of your choice

  • Full access to the Authenticity Academy on the Arrual app 

*Possibility of extension at the end of the month

EMERALD

3-month Personalised Transformation Program

  • 12x 75min. private 1-1 Zoom sessions

(incl. lifetime access to all session recordings)

*Weekend availability

  • 12-weeks of 1-1 Telegram access: daily text & voice message support

  • Complete session transcript & notes

  • Weekly self-connection practices customised to your needs

  • All Workbooks:

  1. Authenticity Audit

  2. Attachment & Core wounds Audit 

  3. Trigger Transcendance Tool

  4. The Blueprint to Becoming Obsessionproof

  • Full access to the Authenticity Academy on the Arrual app

I'm here to help you evolve and transform in ways you've never imagined possible. If you are currently at a point in your life where you feel stuck in the same cycles and are ready to take radical responsibility over your life circumstances in order to release those patterns for good, then you're in the right place. 

 

I invite you to book your 45min. Clarity call here so we can connect in a one-to-one space and talk more about you, your unique situation and how we can transform your life in the fastest and deepest way possible.

Here's what others are saying

 

My intention as your self-connection & authenticity coach is to teach you how to (re)connect with yourself so deeply that in the end, you will become your very own version of a self-connection coach: someone equipped with the knowledge, tools, skills and practices to handle any tough turbulent times. Instead of ''giving you the fish'', I am here to ''teach you how to fish'' so you can confidently venture out in the world, live your life and know that at the end of the day no matter what, you will be okay, because you now know how to manage your emotions, transcend triggers, reduce stress, ease anxiety, heal insecurities, integrate your shadows and overcome obsessions with other people.

 

The impact that this work will have on your life is profound and priceless (as you will  be able to read below). However, perhaps an even more exciting part is the effects that your transformation will have on those around you.

How? Because just by you simply choosing to step into, embody and share your authentic self with the world, you are becoming a ''human permission slip'' for others showing them that it is okay and safe to be their authentic selves too. What a precious gift, is it not?

Whether you like it or not, with every decision you make you vote and contribute towards the creation of a new world: So ask yourself; What kind of a world do you want to be voting for? One full of love, transparency, vulnerability, where authenticity is embraced and celebrated or a world where people hold themselves back, pretend, wear masks, people-please, hide their true feelings, play mind-games, feel anxious, stuck in unfulfilling relationships, existing in a life that is draining their soul energy? 

This is your chance to go first, and to be the leader of change that you wish to see in the world.

Here's just a few things that others, who have chosen to lead their lives with love, have been saying so far... 

Are you courageous enough to find out what kind of a life is possible for you?

 

Want to be the next success story?

Do you want to create a life you won't have to distract or escape from?

Do you want to feel secure and at peace no matter what is going on?

Do you want to feel connected, confident and at home

in your own body?

 

I know you do, so allow me to show you how.

Reserve your first 45-minute Clarity Call below

 A life truly worth living awaits you.

 

“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
 

- Carl G. Jung

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Authenticity Academy

Connect with me

Email: info@arrual.com

Instagram: @arrual.authenticity

App: Authenticity Academy

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